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In the beginning of February, we warned you that Tinder was about to monetize their their app AKA charge for swipes. Tinder’s premium service launched on Monday and there was a new stinky wrinkle; a bit of age discrimination towards horny users aged 30+. Users between 18 and 29-years-old will have to pay $9.99 for unlimited swipes, but anyone over the age of 30-years-old pays $19.99. Dirty deeds and ageism right there by taking advantage of thirsty individuals over 30, who really want to get ass from an app too.
Tinder is awesome, but free is even more awesomer. If you are strapped for cash or just looking for a new dating app, we have 15 alternatives to Tinder.
Any of these sites could be instrumental in helping you meet people online. Once you meet people, you’ll find out what you like and don’t like about the services. Maybe you like the quick and low-maintenance format of something like Tinder, or maybe you need the in-depth support of a site like Match. The stigma that once surrounded online dating sites has now vanished and while Tinder is a popular choice for people, it isn't the only resource out there. So if you've had enough of swiping left and right, here are 10 other dating sites that are worth trying out.
Bumble is one of the best apps like Tinder. Interestingly, the creator of Bumble is the co-founder and former executive of Tinder, so you can bet that she knows a thing or two about dating apps. Bumble gives you that familiar Tinder vibe as you swipe right or left on your screen. Verdict: Pulling together the best elements of other older dating apps, Inner Circle is the best all-rounder out there with the highest quantity of people you'd actually like to meet.
There are so many location-based dating apps, but Happn is really, really location-based. It matches you up with potential people that you’ve been recently near (Approximately one city block). You’ll be able to see the number of times you’ve crossed paths with someone, as well as the time and place of your last encounter. Actually, it sounds kinda stalkerish.
Available for iOS and Android.
This app does not want any daters with failing grades. The Grade will reward users who are very dateable, have a quality profile, response rate and tone of messages. However those who fail to meet quality standards receive failing grades. An algorithm assigns a letter grade to users which range from “A+” to “F.” Do you think your profile would make the grade?
Available for iOS.
Hinge suggests matches of your Facebook friends, friends of your friends or third-degree friends. You’ll receive a whole list of potential suitors every day, then you can swipe right or left. For better or worse, Hinge markets itself as the “anti-Tinder.” The downside is having a much smaller dating pool, and people who may actually know what a piece of shit you really are. It’s currently only available in 34 cities.
Available for iOS and Android.
Revealr utilizes not only words and photos to help you get acquainted with someone, but also audio. The user’s photos are pixelated, so matches are not solely based on looks. Every user records a 20-second audio clip and if you like what you hear you can match up.
Available on iOS.
While men are usually the aggressive party in most dating apps, that is not the case at Bumble. The app is said to be “run by girls,” and men can’t send the first message to women. Act fast because the chance to connect disappears after 24 hours.
The app also gives more information than most dating apps. You can share such intimate details as occupation and education history. It looks much like Tinder because Bumble was founded by Tinder co-founder Whitney Wolfe.
Available on iOS.
For those who are a little more picky who they want to date, The League is for you. It connects to your Facebook and LinkedIn to determine if you are qualified to be on the dating app. You are then placed on a waitlist to determine if you are boushie enough before being accepted into the app.
If and when you are deemed worthy of being on the exclusive app you’ll get five matches a day. Currently The League is only available in San Francisco, but it is expected to be in New York City, Atlanta, Seattle and Denver soon.
Available on iOS.
Pure claims that it is “The Uber for dates.” I don’t really know what that even means. Does some creepy guy pick you up in a beat up 2001 Mitsubishi Gallant when you can’t drive home because you had too many Strongbow Ciders?
It’s very similar in Tinder in seeking people to hookup. However requests and photos are only available to those with matching search criteria. When you download the app you’re given five free tickets. Each one is good for one hour of your profile being visible by potential partners. However this is some Candy Crush bullshit where you’ll need to purchase more tickets to extend your presence on the app. Only your first five hook up attempts are free. But regardless of the success of the posting, you will have to spend a ticket each time.
Available on iOS and coming soon to Android.
Loveflutter is what would happen if Tinder and Twitter fucked and had a dating app baby. The app blurs people’s profile photo and you only have a 140-character description of them to base your interest. This seems perfect for the “But he/she has a great personality” crowd.
Available on iOS.
Love Milky Chance, The Weeknd or Black Keys and only want to meet a chill chick that has the same taste in music as you? Tastebuds.fm does just that. With Spotify and iTunes integration, you can seek out those with similar preference in music, including bands and genre.
Available on iOS.
The Down app was previously the ever romantic “Bang With Friends” app. The site encourages users to “Skip the chatting, and get to smacking those cheeks.” It utilizes Facebook to help you get the nerve to approach that super hot chick on Facebook that you’ve been to terrified to approach.
Available on iOS and Android.
Looking to meet someone who loves posting photos of their coq au vin dinner and excursions to Bermuda? Glimpse may be for you. The app connects to a user’s Instagram account. Use your love for photography to meet that cool, new chick.
Available on iOS.
Skout is much like Tinder, and much like Tinder they have a free version and a premium version. Your location isn’t revealed unless you choose to do so. It does have very good reviews on iTunes and the Google Play store. The downside is that there are annoying ads and only upgrading to Skout+ will get rid of them.
Available on iOS and Android.
Make your bubeleh proud and stop kvetching that you can’t find a nice Jewish girl. Be a real mensch and join JSwipe and hope you don’t get stuck with a meschugena.
Available on iOS and Android.
Coffee Meets Bagel just sounds like a nice, quaint place to meet a lovely girl. It connects to your Facebook and presents you with one match each day at noon. If you both like each other you can then chitchat for a week on the app, after that the line of communication is cut… unless you pay to upgrade your perks.
Available on iOS and Android.
Do you have a beard or are you a gal that appreciates a man with a beard? Welcome to Bristlr, a dating app that claims, “Connecting those with beards to those who want to stroke beards.” Sorry clean-shaven bros, you need not apply.
Available on iOS and Android.
Tinder might be the all-around most heard of and popular dating app, and with more than 50 million users, there’s probably a good reason for that. However, while Tinder was the pioneer of dating apps, it wasn’t the first online dating option out there, when meeting someone online was deemed very dangerous and a lot of stigmas surrounded it. So of course, come of this online dating websites have adapted to the times and are now solid competition for Tinder.
Furthermore, there have been new dating apps that have been developed, with refreshing outlooks and with distinguishing features that try to make them stand from the rest and, for some, provide an extra something to what Tinder seems to offer, be it in the style of dates, the type of person they’re targeted towards or the final goal of its users. So let’s check out the competition for Tinder and see if maybe, one of these actually suits your needs way better than Tinder.
15 Alternative Apps like Tinder
1. OkCupid
OkCupid is one of the best dating apps in the industry for the longest period of time. Its approach seems to be more holistic than Tinder, considering that their attempt is for the matches to be based on information rather than on photos and your looks. Therefore, you have to put a lot more information about your likes, dislikes and what your interests in general, allowing for a more personalized match.
Pros: It allows for a more informed match, going beyond the physical appearance.
Cons: Most of its features require you to pay for them.
Verdict: While knowing a bit more about the person is helpful, this will only be the app for you if you have money to spare and time to read through all the info! But it’s definitely a good option for those of you looking for more than a casual fling.
2. eHarmony
Another pioneer of online dating services that have adapted to the new mobile apps is eHarmony. With a compatibility algorithm, it certainly looks to provide you with matches that are actually quite compatible with you and your interests, evaluating around 29 spheres of compatibility, a change from the more superficial Tinder.
Pros: Dates are certainly more fun if you already know more about the things you have in common!
Cons: Asides from the time required to do your profile, is only available in a selected number of countries, so no passing flings while on your vacation!
Verdict: This is definitely one of the most scientific approaches out there, so if you’re looking for something long term and are a believer in science, this might just be your app!
3. Bumble
Considered by many as Tinder’s main competitor, Bumble offers a different star to the conversation, with only women allowed to make the first move in the space of 24 hours. It also has a feature for making friends for those that are just looking for someone to hang out with without any further intentions.
Pros: Gives more power to women and helps them avoid the terrible pick-up lines that sometimes take place on Tinder.
Cons: If you had a busy 24 hours, you might miss on the chance of texting your match, and then they’ll be gone, forever.
Verdict: Certainly useful if you’re a woman that likes to make the first step. As for what you’re looking for…well, really, anything goes on Bumble as well as on Tinder, although it’s a bit less hookup oriented.
4. Do I Date
This concept it’s really crazy but also quite interesting. On Do I Date app, you can actually review the people you have gone out with and say the good or the bad things about them. Almost feels as if you’re a place and they are rating you for future visitors. Weird, but certainly different from the other apps out there.
Pros: It certainly gives you information about the other person aside from their pictures.
Cons: What if someone feels vindictive and wants to mess up your profile? Exes are not always the friendliest of people.
Verdict: If you are the most amazing person ever and like to get reviewed like a restaurant, then this app is for you! And considering the system, probably not the best place to find something long term.
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5. Double
Another different dating concept is Double. In this one, you and another single friend have a common profile and your matches are with other pairs of singles, and then you all get to go out together! Now, this is surely a way to try and guarantee your safety as well as an awesome way to break the ice since it has a more laid back feel to it.
Pros: It takes a lot of the stress out of meeting a new person if you get to be with one of your closest friends while you do it.
Cons: What if both guys like one girl and vice versa? This might quickly backfire and turn a fun night into a dramatic one.
Verdict: Certainly a great fit for the shiest of you out there and who knows? Even if it doesn’t work out for any of you, you might all become friends!
6. Coffee Meets Bagel
In Coffee Meets Bagel, Girls are bagels, and men are coffee, and isn’t this a different outtake already? And it gets better, the guys get 21 options of “bagels” around noon and they get to swipe from this select few, then, the most compatible ones are presented to the girl, who already knows that these guys are interested and gets to like them back or not. And voila! Coffee has matched with bagel!
Pros: Girls already know that the guys are interested and the time consumed for both men and women is a lot less than in other apps.
Cons: You do get limited options, which might certainly reduce your number of matches.
Verdict: If you don’t like to dedicate a lot of your time to your dating apps, this one was definitely made thinking about you! Go ahead and be a bagel! Or a coffee, and meet your match!
7. Plenty of Fish
There are really a lot of fishes on this sea, with more than 70 million users in the app! Plenty of Fish has a similar platform as Tinder, with the main difference being that practically all of its features are free! So you can send any number of messages you want and you’ll never run out of swipes, considering the huge number of people on it.
Pros: You get a wide variety of options to choose from.
Cons: It becomes very difficult to weed through the bunch of fake profiles and people you are not interested in.
Verdict: If you just one get out there and have a little fun, it might be time for you to go fishing!
8. Hinge
Now talk about being specific! Hinge is an app that allows you to like specific parts of the other person’s profile. This is for sure a great conversation starter as well as a way to specify what you are interested in from the very beginning and it certainly motivates the users to tell a bit more about themselves and their passions.
Pros: It provides a bit more of information about your possible match without making it way too long.
Cons: It does use your Facebook information to match you with your friend’s friends, so it is going to get out there that you are hitting on your acquaintances. But hey, they’re doing it too!
Verdict: Considering that its slogan is “the relationship app”, it is mostly directed to those of you looking for an actual relationship, with someone you know…of.
9. Happn
Now this one is like destiny meets technology and creates its own love story, or fling story, as you wish. With Happn, you actually match with people that have downloaded the app and that have crossed paths with you, and then, you get to decide if you are interested in them or not. Hey, you crossed paths 14 times! Maybe you should go out for drinks!
Pros: It’s a great way to meet those around you and making sure that you match with people near to you.
Cons: Well, it might get awkward if you actually go on a date and it goes badly, then you might be seeing each other all the time.
Verdict: If you’re not afraid of getting your favorite coffee shop ruined, you might just find out that the love of your life was always on your elevator ride!
10. Elite Singles
Isn’t the name such a bore already? However, the concept is not bad at all. On Elite Singles, the users must all be highly educated, preferably with a college degree. This, of course, skews the age curve quite a bit with around 90% of its users being over 30. No Generation Zs are allowed here!
Pros: If you are only interested in college graduates since you are one as well, this might be the right app.
Cons: It does feel a bit snobbish and it might stop you from meeting someone amazing that made something of themselves without going to college!
Verdict: It’s probably good for long term matches, especially considering that if you’re just looking for a hookup, you’re unlikely to care about their college degree.
11. Grindr
Grindr is definitely the most used apps out there by gay men, bi, queer and transgender people. With millions of downloads, it is targeted towards men only, and it helps clarify and facilitates meeting people with their same sexual orientation. Fun fact: It actually pre-dates Tinder, since it was released in 2009.
Pros: It’s easy to use and fairly straight forward.
Cons: It does tend to have some glitches and the interface is not the friendliest one out there.
Verdict: If you are gay, bi, queer or trans and you are looking for a hookup, this is definitely your app.Although I do have to say that I have two friends that met there and are married today so, anything can happen! If you’re looking for Grindr alternatives then here is the best gay dating apps.
12. Luxy
Another more snobbish app, although understandably so, it’s Luxy. Here, you can have a profile only if you’re a certified millionaire. And yes, I know that’s a very exclusive group out there, but it does have a bit of sense that they might want to screen and rule out any sugar babes getting near their very full pockets.
Pros: It does have 24/7 customer service and, if you are a millionaire, allows you to date with people with a lifestyle probably similar to yours.
Cons: Well, first you have to be a millionaire and second, the love of your life might be someone who doesn’t have a penny to their name and you’ll never find out.
Verdict: If you are a millionaire looking for a millionaire to be millionaires together, this is your app.
13. Now
So for all the extremely busy souls out there, here is Now, an app that basically allows you to put which ones are your free schedules and matches you with people that have the same time off. Talking about leaving out all the rescheduling and trying to figure out the right time to go out way behind!
Pros: It certainly is convenient if you have a terribly packed schedule.
Cons: Well, the only things you have in common before you go out is that you were free at the same time, I don’t have many hopes for that date.
Verdict: I might be mistaken, but it does seem more convenient for casual hookups than for trying to build a meaningful relationship. So if you just want to release some pent-up energy, this might be the one for you!
14. Her
I guess you could say it’s the equivalent to Grindr, but it’s not. Although Her is targeted towards lesbian, bi, queer and trans communities, it encompasses a lot more than Grindr, with not only the possibility to match with someone but also to find out about the next LGBTQ+ events out there as well as getting news related to the community.
Pros: It helps to find people with the same sexual orientation with hopefully none of the “hey my boyfriend and I want a threesome” messages.
Cons: The interface is not the friendliest one and sometimes it might feel a bit cluttered with all that is going on.
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Verdict: If you are lesbian, bi, queer or trans and are looking to stay up to date and on the dating circles, this app is for you! If you’re interested in similar apps, then check these best Lesbian dating apps.
15. Feeld
Feeld might be one of the best Tinder alternative apps out there since it’s targeted to people interested in relationships or hookups with more than two people involved. So that couple looking for the threesome on Tinder? Well, they should definitely read about Feeld and maybe try their luck there!
Pros: If you are interested in alternative lifestyles, relationships or meet-ups, this might be the app for you.
Cons: The anonymity that is sometimes preferred by the people into these lifestyles is lost here. So you might end up finding out about your boss’s kinky side.
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Verdict: A good place for those interested in exploring beyond the mainstream dating world and experimenting different alternatives.
So there you go! Hopefully, if you were discontent with Tinder or if you’re entirely new to the dating apps’ world, now you might have a better idea of what are some of your options and decide which one better adapts to your needs! If you’re looking for casual flings/sex then we recommend you to check out best hookup sites.